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13 Days in Thailand & Cambodia


An awe-inspiring place, Thailand has something for everyone. If you’re an adventure junkie, you’ll probably find yourself SCUBA diving with sharks, or taking Muay-Thai kickboxing classes. If the wilder side of life isn’t your cup of tea, don’t despair – between intricate temples, Thai cooking classes, and the world’s most exotic beaches we’re confident you’ll find more than enough to keep you happy. As one of the most gay-friendly destinations in the world, Thailand is an opportunity to feel completely comfortable being yourself while experiencing a whole new side to life.

Thailand has that exotic, mysterious, exciting appeal to it. Just hearing the name “Bangkok” can send shivers down people’s spines, and the allure of the country’s jungles and mysterious culture is mesmerizing. Thailand is the Mecca of adventure, carefree living, and open-mindedness. There are fewer inhibiting rules or Western nonsense here, and the Buddhist zen-like culture makes the country one of the happiest places on earth.

This 13-day trip doesn't just spend the whole time in Thailand though - you'll be experiencing the famous lost city of Angkor Wat in Cambodia too!  There's a reason the Temples of Angkor are one of the 7 wonders of the world.  At 402 acres in size, this is the largest religious site in the world, lost in dense Cambodian jungle for hundreds of years and now an unforgettable place for us to explore together.  Between the gorgeous beaches of southern Thailand, the buzzing city of Bangkok, and the jaw-dropping Angkor Wat, you're sure to head home full of memories of a fantastic adventure.

Our 13-day trips have been designed to maximize your experience. Instead of rushing around in a panic trying to visit as many places as possible, we’ve specially chosen only the our favorite spots in the region... spots we know you’ll fall in love with. How are we so sure? Well, we’ve spent years in this country tirelessly testing out beaches, bars, and bungalows just to make sure we can bring you the cream of the crop.  

Days 1, 2 and 3 - BANGKOK

Most travelers will arrive in Bangkok on day one and head to our meeting spot for our 4pm start of our adventure on this day.  This time in Bangkok is a great introduction to the incredible country of Thailand.  During these couple days, we'll really get to know the city by checking out Bangkok's highlights using local tuk-tuks, boats, and trains.  On our second day, we'll take a guided day-trip around the city visiting Wat Pho, Wat Arun, and more.  At night we'll head down the street to check out Silom's famous night market and very lively gay scene.  Bangkok is world famous for many reasons and never disappoints her visitors.

Included: A full day of exploring Bangkok's highlights with our fabulous local guide, Yelli

Optional: Eat your way through the street stalls of Chinatown, float along the famous floating markets, shop til you drop, check out the Jim Thompson House, soak in the unique nightlife, stand on the the glass floor of the highest tower in Thailand...

Days 4, 5, and 6 - RAILAY

Day 4 brings us to southern Thailand after a quick 1-hour flight and 15-minute longtail boat ride to the jaw-dropping cliffs and white sand beaches of Railay.  An idyllic paradise surrounded by the perfectly blue waters that have made the shores of the Andaman Sea so famous.   Railay offers hidden lagoons and caves for hikers, beaches for sun-worshippers, and plenty of opportunity to eat great food and meet people from all around the world.  Stay on land watching the monkeys or exploring the local caves, or jump in the water for some snorkeling, swimming, or SCUBA diving fun.  

Included: Hikes to the stunning views of the Railay viewpoint, and through the caves of Phranang Beach.

Optional: Snorkel in the perfectly clear water, take a cooking class, pamper yourself in a day spa, kayak along the dramatic coastline, soak up the sun on the white sand beaches...

Days 7, 8, and 9 - PHUKET

On day 7 we'll head overland with a 3-hour drive to the well known beachfront destination of Phuket. It’s here you’ll find opportunities for watersports like parasailing or jetskiing, maybe charter a boat with the group to do some island hopping, or get some sun on the local  beaches by day while socializing with people from all over the planet by night.  Phuket is popular day and night and has tonnes of options for both early-risers and late-nighters.  Get your shopping done, check out a cabaret show, relax on the beach, take a cooking class, spend the day at the spa... it's beautiful place to unwind... or windup.  It's also here that you'll spend the day up-close with the gentle giants of the jungle, the elephants... feeding and interacting with these beautiful creatures in an ethical way that will leave you in awe.

Included: An ethical elephant interaction experience in the jungles of Phuket province.

Optional: Enjoy endless massages, parasail over the beautiful beaches, check out some of the unique nighttime shows, take a boat trip to "James Bond Island", go golfing, zipline through the jungle...

Days 10, 11, 12, and 13 - SIEM REAP, CAMBODIA

It's time to jet off to one of the 7 wonders of the world - the famous temples of Angkor!  We'll touch down in the Cambodian city of Siem Reap, home to the spectacular ancient temple complex and a unique city full of new sights and smells.  We'll spend our time here with a local guide who will join us in exploring the beautiful lost city of Angkor and the unique Cambodian city of Siem Reap.  It's an awe-inspiring experience sure to make everyone at home jealous.  

Our trip together comes to an end here in Siem Reap on the 13th day and you're welcome to depart any time on this day, but don't worry, Thailand & Cambodia will be waiting for ya to come back!  We encourage all travelers use Siem Reap's international airport (REP) to head home or onwards to more adventures.

Included: Two day-visits with a local guide (including entrance fees) to experience the best parts of the ancient temples of Angkor.

Optional: Check out the uniquely famous circus, experience the gay nightlife of Pub Street, take a guided bike tour of the city, explore the city's markets, visit the national museum... 

We don't like staying in smelly shacks on our vacations and we're pretty sure you don't either! You work hard to go on vacation and we believe you deserve an enjoyable, comfortable place to wind down at the end of each day. We put a LOT of time into finding the perfect accommodation for your trip. After rigorous wifi signal testing, fluffing pillows, and taking a shower or two, we've narrowed down our favorite properties. Check out our approved accommodation to see where we've stayed in the past and where we'll likely be staying on your trip.

BANGKOK: Amara Hotel

The Amara Hotel will quickly feel like a home away from home, right in the middle of Bangkok. Centrally located in the Silom neighbourhood and minutes from the famous Patpong Night Market and Bangkok's gay area, the Amara is a favorite hotel amongst our guests. Featuring a modern design, a gorgeous rooftop infinity pool, exercise facilities and friendly staff.

RAILAY: Bhu Nga Thani

This oceanfront property is set against Railay's limestone cliffs and swaying palms. The gorgeous swimming facility features a pool bar with delicious margaritas, friendly staff and the occasional monkey lounging on your room's patio. Bhu Nga Thani provides the tropical paradise you've been waiting for. 

PHUKET: X2 Vibe Patong

Located only a few steps from the beach, X2 Vibe Patong (i.e. formerly known as "The Nap") provides a contemporary facility in the heart of Patong in Phuket. Situated minutes away from the gay area (the Paradise Complex) and Bangla road, you'll find the location of this hotel couldn't be better. Property amenities include a sunny outdoor pool and an exercise facility.

SIEM REAP: Sarai Resort & Spa

The Sarai Resort is an oasis nestled in the city centre of Siem Reap. With plenty of restaurants and markets only a few minutes away, our choice hotel features a jaw-dropping outdoor pool that'll make you feel like royalty. The fantastic breakfasts are made to order and are the cherry on top of this rare 5-star TripAdvisor rated hotel.

*Please note that due to availability, these exact hotels may not all be available during all Detours trips.  

The Climate

Don’t worry about getting chilly, Thailand and Cambodia are tropical countries and the areas that we travel in are warm day and night.  High temperatures of 35C/97F, and lows of 23C/77F can be expected through most of the year.  Even if it rains it’s usually in the afternoon, and these unlikely showers are a refreshing cool-down and make a great excuse to try out your favorite rain dance.

The People and LGBTQ+ Community

95% of Thailand's and Cambodia's population are Buddhist, which makes for a laid-back, friendly country full of good-karma seekers. Great people that love their food, their king, and of course their international visitors, you’ll be hard-pressed not to make dozens of local friends during your stay. While you’re there, consider learning a few words their language, “Thai”. (Not “Taiwanese”, by the way – that’s from Taiwan) We recommend starting off with “Sawat-dee-khap” (hello), “Khap koon khap” (thank you), and of course “Hat yoo tee-nai khap” (where’s the beach?).

You’ll have a tough time finding a more open-minded and accepting region, and most people don’t have any issue at all with homosexuality. That said, they are a modest people, and public displays of affection (whether gay or straight) are generally frowned upon. In respect for their local culture we usually suggest keeping your excitement and affection for your partner to more private locations.

The Cuisine

South-east Asia is home to some of the most amazing food on the planet, and it's cheap too!  Detours doesn't believe in limiting your choices by including meals at pre-decided restaurants as part of the trip package.  Instead, we encourage you to explore all of the different restaurant options available to you.  This way you can eat when you want, where you want, with whomever you want, and spend what you want!  Your trip leader definitely has their favorite spots and will be excited to show you all of their favorites in each location, just check with them.

What to Bring

Our advice is simple. Pack your bag, then take half of those things out and leave them back home. It’s common to hear people wishing they’d packed less stuff, but we’ve never heard anyone complain that they didn’t bring enough. Thailand is a very inexpensive country, meaning even if you realize you forget to pack some crucial item you can just pick it up on the trip for half of what it would have cost back home.


ATM withdrawal fees can really add up, and credit cards aren't always accepted at shops and restaurants here, that's why we suggest grabbing some Thai Baht before you arrive to Thailand (around 10,000 THB is a good amount to start with).  Bring your regular ATM card and credit card for additional needs too though. 1000 Thai Baht is worth around $30 USD, so don’t go nuts if your dinner bill costs 200 baht. Relax –that’s about 6 bucks. Your 300 baht, hour-long full body oil massage on the beach? Yeah, that cost less than $10.


While tipping isn't a native custom in this destination, those working in the tourism industry all over the world have come to expect gratuities when providing good service.  This extends to local guides, restaurant wait staff, bus drivers, and your Detours trip leader.  Of course the actual amount is left up to your discretion, if you've been provided excellent service we suggest leaving around 15% for restaurant/wait staff as well as the local equivalent of a few dollars to bus drivers and luggage porters, as well as around $10-15 USD per day for local guides and your Detours trip leader.


We have pretty high standards when it comes to choosing our accommodations, and trust us, we’ve done plenty of room-sniffing, pillow-patting, and bathroom inspections to make sure we stay at quality spots. To be approved as a Detours accommodations provider, a guesthouse must: be locally owned (to support the local community), be in an amazing location (close to the beach and other hot spots), have air conditioning (you can thank us later), AND be gay-owned or gay-friendly.  We won't be staying in 5-star Ritz-Carltons but we also won't subject you to anything we wouldn't want to stay in ourselves.  Clean, comfortable, well-located spots that'll put a smile on your face, you can count on that!

Trip Leaders

All Detours trips are led by one of our own Detours trip leaders.  They're there with you every day and their job is to help ensure that this is your trip of a lifetime by taking the hassle out of your trip and enabling you to experience everything you came to Thailand & Cambodia for.  Consider them like a friendly concierge that's traveling along with you.  All of our trip leaders are gay and all are well-traveled and experienced in the destination they're leading in, so they'll be a great part of your experience!

Alarm Clocks

We do absolutely everything possible to avoid needing such a mundane awakening. A world without alarm clocks is one we want to be part of, and your “rise and shine” while in Thailand will come from the sound of crashing waves, an elephant trumpeting, or perhaps even the odd monkey jumping onto the roof of your bungalow.

Your Group

Our Detours groups are run with a maximum of 16 travelers. Ages of group members vary but around 90% of our travelers are in their 30's, 40's, and 50's.  Whatever the age of the guys on our trips everyone's already got something in common, an exciting new experience in a new country! Each group is led by a Detours trip leader who is there to ensure everything goes off without a hitch, allowing you to focus on having the time of your life!

Communicating with Home

There is WiFi at every hotel we stay at and most restaurants that we eat in. Alternatively, if your mobile phone is "unlocked" you can pick up a local SIM card which is quite affordable.

Electrical Outlets

Thailand & Cambodia use a "type A" and "type B" plug, the same as North America and several other places in the world. The voltage is 220V with 50 Hz frequency. These days, the majority of items that are plugged into an outlet are built to handle varying voltage and frequency levels, but just to be sure, we suggest checking your item for its acceptable range.

What's included? • All taxes • All group transport between itinerary destinations • 2 regional flights within Thailand & Cambodia (Bangkok to Southern Thailand to Cambodia) • Accommodations for your 13-day Detours experience • All full breakfasts • Full day Bangkok and temples day tour • Full day experience at local Elephant sanctuary • 2 days at Angkor Wat temples including entrance and local guide • Welcome dinner and drinks • Knowledgeable and fun Detours leader • 

What isn't included? • Meals and drinks outside of those listed above • Cambodian Visa, $30 USD • Activities outside of the ones listed above • International Airfare • Arrival/Departure airport transfers • Optional Gratuities •

Additional spending budget?  Your big-ticket items are included through the trip, but you'll want to budget for additional spending such as additional meals, drinks, shopping, activities, etc. These costs can vary dramatically with differing personal habits but we suggest expecting to spend an additional $700 USD at the lower end for the more budget-conscious and $1200 USD at the higher end for the splurgers.  We suggest arriving to Thailand with approximately 10,000 local Thai Baht, and $100 US Dollars (for Cambodia).

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Trip Reviews

Andy H. - USA

July 16, 2018

Detours has been my go to choice for unique travel experiences for the last 5 years. My 6th foray into the World of Detours was a trip I had waited 5 years to take, because of time restrictions at work.  And it was definitely worth the wait! The diverse chaos and sensory overload of Bangkok to the quiet nights under the stars in Khao Yai,
the contrasts and diversity of this stunning country offers something for everyone. This trip gave a sense of discovery to not only a new country, but to one's self. Learning one's own limits, and then pushing them was possible here with no judgement. The people are so helpful and polite in every situation. They have an eagerness to please in any capacity.  Each hotel selected by Detours was first rate! Luxurious pools and spas, exquisite restaurants and night life were always just a few steps away.  The beaches of Railay and Phuket are in a league unto themselves.  All the impossible stories of this country are true, and then some. My travel companions were as diverse as this trip. Close and lasting friendships were forged with ease. That, I have found, is a pleasant byproduct of the Detours experience. Our trip Leader Shane has a wealth of knowledge of this country that he eagerly shared. His guidance and openness to try new activities made for a very enjoyable time together. If you haven't experienced Detours yet, just do it. Do it now!

Brett S. - USA

April 5, 2018

When I signed up with Detours, I knew that I would have quite the experience in Thailand: hotels, transportation, and a knowledgeable guide to ensure that I got a "taste" of Thailand. I had no idea that I would also meet an incredible group of 15 other male travelers! Together we laughed, toured, experienced, discussed, and drank our way through temples, beaches, boats, and cities. Our trip leader could not have cared more for each one of us, as individuals. Shane, you truly brought the heart to this adventure. Thanks, Detours!

Greg M. - USA

April 4, 2018

I had a great time traveling to Thailand with Detours. I went to places and did things that definitely were not on my radar but that I absolutely loved. Shane, our group leader, was a joy. He really made the trip very special thanks to both his expertise in the country and his positive attitude!

Chris L. - USA

January 17, 2018

Just wrapped up my 3rd trip with Detours - Thailand January 2018 - and I'm ready to sign up for my 4th trip later this year. The trips continue to surprise me because of the life experiences as well as some of the lifelong bonds you create with some of your fellow travelers. I'm a true believer that no one would regret booking a trip with Detours.

Bruce B. - USA

November 22, 2017

My husband and I were on the November 2017 Thailand 15-day trip. This was our first trip with Detours, and it exceeded our expectations in every way. We really enjoyed sharing the experience with the other guys—everyone got along very well, and we always looked forward to sharing the day’s experiences with the group over dinner. The accommodations were first-rate, including staying in a luxury treehouse. The activities were interesting and varied, and you always had the option of doing something else if you didn’t like a particular activity. The trip leaders, Shane and Miles, were very sensitive to each person’s interests and needs, and the trip was very well organized. It was comforting to turn over the logistical details to them. We had such a great time, that we have already booked the Detours trip to South Africa in January. We would most highly recommend Detours to anyone who wants a first-class experience at a very reasonable price. Thanks Shane and Miles! 

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